Well Frank...
My husband did the same thing as you .Taking part of a selfish act. You say "stay at home mom" like it means nothing.
My husband bailed because he said I wasn't giving him enough time. My daughter is very ill and needs alot of medical attention which by the way he never takes part in .
The house stays clean and dinner is cooked and if I don.t cook I let him know in advance .And when he can have sex I'm there with bells on good or bad. I really get tired of you men saying that we(women) need to take care of you. My husband just like you I bet. come home when your ready and expect us to stop whatever and please you .It doesn.t matter if we had a hard day it's all about you guys. If men could open there darn mouths and say how they feel when there feeling it then maybe things wouldn't get so out of hand.So maybe before anyone cheats and people get hurt open your darn mouths and make sure your love one hears you before you ruin there lives and yours and not to mention the children.