Infidelity Tests

If you really want to know how to catch a cheating spouse here are some infidelity test you can use to check for if your spouse is cheating on you.

Here are some symptoms of a cheating spouse:

Seems generally more secretive, short tempered, distant or defensive. Becomes more secretive with cell phone and maybe acquires a phone card or pager. More or secret email accounts.

Become irritable, vague and distracted. ignoring or criticizing any effort you make to question their actions or even engage them in discussing personal issues.

Doesn’t want to argue, fight or go anywhere with you.

Picks fights over small things or other behaviors to get you to leave the house. Or sets up appointments for you or gets you together with a friend or relative.

Takes more interest in his/her appearance and clothing at certain times. More time at the gym or exercise, and possibly improved diet.

Becomes defensive or changes the subject if infidelity or affairs comes up.

long hours of time unaccounted for, explained by increasingly flimsy excuses. Is more often unreachable by phone.

Errands take much longer than they should or too many visits to "friends".

Work is commonly used as an excuse to account for large blocks of time away from home.

Travel affords a cheating unfaithful spouse a unique opportunity to cheat away from prying eyes.

Has shown more or less interest in talking about sex or intimate matters lately or during the beginning of the time you suspect the affair was going on. The only conversation may be about basics such as dinner.

During the holidays and various other times throughout the year, you may find gifts or cards hidden around your home or in the car.

An accidental slip-up on on the part of your spouse or someone else can clue you into what’s been happening behind your back.

Frequent silence when you pick up the phone.

Strange smells. Clothes smell unusual or have stains.

Unexplained expenses. Unexplained charges on bank statements. Hiding of cell phone, telephone or credit card statements.

Hints you're getting from your friends that you may be discounting.

Request for your schedule or itinerary more often than usual.

You found condoms or Viagra hidden when these were not used before.

Accuses you of something such as cheating to deflect the questions.

Reduction of planning and talk about your future together.

Unusual items in ashtrays or car seat. Changes in position of passenger seat of car.

May mention new people, places and things, while the people, places and things he normally talks about are no longer a part of his conversation.

Hang up calls or someone saying they have the wrong number.